How to Get a Girlfriend Online

Getting a girlfriend online is easier than you think. However, there has to be a strategy before sailing your ship into the sea. You have to have a Plan. As Winston Churchill says, "Failing to Plan is Planning to Fail."

Most guys do this, which is one of the primary reasons why guys don't seem to have much luck in online dating apps. They don't have much of a strategy or a plan.

It used to not be like this. The competition online was better a few years ago, but since COVID-19 and where technology has been going, the percentage of people online has skyrocketed. And with new algorithms,  the competition for men has become more fierce than ever.​

So we have to have a game plan. Let's talk about the do's and don'ts.

Since attention span nowadays is concise and people are actively swiping left or right, you need robust and solid profile pictures—especially the first picture. There's a reason people say, "You never have a second chance to make a first impression" so much. It's because, unfortunately, that's how our brains are wired!

If your pictures are bad, low quality, lighting is terrible, selfie in the bathroom kind of pictures, or your style is wack, or you can't really see your face, most likely you will not get many matches, and the matches you do get will be not the ones you want to get matched with.
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If you are bothering to use online dating profiles to find someone, a strong foundation where everything is built in the beginning is critical. If not, why are you even bothering? Your profile has to be maximized and optimized to fully fire, and then a/b tested with different types of pictures to find the best results.

Sometimes, the pictures you think look good are not good ones, so you need opinions. What matters is what women think of the pictures, not you. After completing this step, you will have more matches with women and more opportunities to text them.

Now comes the online messaging. It is the biggest obstacle I see men have the most difficulty with. You are texting them to meet them and going on dates. Online dating aims to meet them in real life, not stay in the chatbox forever. So we want to avoid having super long conversations in the online chats and having fun and playful conversations where you eventually ask her out, and she gives you her number. Then you can set the date to meet her.

Most guys will match up with women, but then the conversation will fizzle. Girls will unmatch with him because the conversation will be boring and mundane, and they'll try to avoid talking to him anymore. This repeated pattern can make a man bitter, angry, and frustrated.

That's why we must learn to be more playful when texting women to meet up with them and see if there's a connection. If there is,  you will keep going on dates with her, and she will eventually become your girlfriend if the pieces fit together right. And if you hit the jackpot, that person could be the person who gives you a relationship that will be passionate and meaningful.

These are the dos and don'ts of online dating. If you can resonate with this and want to get a girlfriend online, message me.  As your dating coach we will revamp your dating profile and learn how to effectively text women to set dates and meet them in real life so that you can find the perfect woman for you!